I ran into this funny picture on the Internet.
It goes into great length to illustrate that “sex is no accident”.
Of course, one can expect that a man or a woman would say that sex is an accident after having a few drinks and acting on impulses. No wonder why the world’s ancient religious books argued against using intoxicants lest they rob you from your senses and make you “sin”.
Apart from sex due to being intoxicated and non-consensual sex (rape for instance), sex cannot be an accident. It is always an impulse to satisfy a need within us. One has to only look deep inside and be honest in order to figure out what kind of “hunger” one is satisfying by the shallow act of sex.
No one denies that sex is enjoyable and sex without consequences (casual sex) is even more enjoyable. But is that the “right” thing to do? Think again.
We live in an age where degeneracy is the norm. The main stream media, TV commercials, movies, etc. encourage us directly or indirectly (via subliminal messages) to act like animals: let our instincts rule over our greater sense of reasoning and empathy.
Men want to “score” as many women as they can and women want to prove that they are in demand and desirable by dressing provocatively to attract men and sleep with them.
After all this debacle, the one night stands or the hooking up are over, then problems start to arise and one party or both parties get bruised, resentful or even regretful. The relationship and trust between the sexes start to erode. New “movements” and “support groups” start to arise (such as: Feminism and the MRM or the PUA community and the MGTOW community).
Sexes are no more in harmony. You start to see all sorts of twisted gender role reversals and all those “studies” that say that genders are just a social construct rather than a biological one.
In the case of the classical “friends with benefits” arrangement, if one party wants more sex and the other wants no more then one can expect retaliation.
After all, sex can be used as a powerful weapon of extortion and control. How many times have you seen a sexy lady (cladly dressed) trying to seduce and lure men? What about the gigolo and the womanizer?
Unfortunately, we live in an age of political correctness. If you speak the truth and name things as they are you will be called names (a misogynist, etc.).
False rape allegations for vengeance or smearing the reputation of others is a common thing now. It is like the boy who cried wolf.
In conclusion, I think one should lead an honest life with the golden rule as the main motivation. Do not deceive others because at the end, karma will catch up with you. If it takes eternity to get what you want in life without ever resorting to taking shortcuts then so be it.
At the end, it is not the destination that matters, it is the journey, what you learn and what kind of a human being you become along the way.
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